Hey, man of God,

One of my core desires behind the Stay Sharp Weekly is to give you simple but powerful action steps you can take to get sharp and stay sharp. I want you to grow in your relationship with Christ and further align your heart with his will. 

But I also want to help you cut your ties with the flesh and close the back doors of your life where Satan loves to creep in to steal, kill, and destroy.

So, here is a simple, but powerful practice you can implement that will protect your marriage from infidelity.

Give your wife complete access to your phone.

Invite her to have unlimited permission to look at every line of communication. 

• Email
• Social media accounts
• Voicemails and call logs
• Messaging apps
• Browsers
• Gaming chats
• Everything

Think it's overkill?

Ask the man whose marriage has been destroyed by the secret life he was living. 

Ask the guy who had a text conversation with a co-worker that turned into an affair.

Ask your neighbor who got sucked deep into a porn addiction on his phone.

Ask him what he would do if he could turn back time. 

Encourage her to look at it and don’t be surprised if you find her checking your phone periodically. 

Don’t be defensive. 

When you walk in integrity, you have nothing to hide. 

Just say, “Thank you.”

THIS WEEK’S TOP 3

1. READ: Matthew 19
2. THINK: Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4
3. ACT: Take 5 minutes and write a pros & cons list of giving your wife access to your phone. What do you have to lose? What do you have to gain? Then, take action. What will you do?

ARE YOU READY TO FOR SOMETHING DIFFERENT?

I coach driven visionary Christian men who want to sustain lifelong impact in the world for God’s Kingdom. I show them the way to build an inner framework and razor sharp purpose that supports anything they build and bring into the world on the outside. 

Too many of us have become great at building amazing businesses, ministries and movements but we have neglected our inner life. We are literally imploding under the stress and weight of it all. 

And the cost?

You end up standing at the top of the mountain alone… your marriage in shambles, your kids disconnected, and your relationship with God distant. 

Is there a way to chase what God has put in you and not sacrifice what is most important to you? 

The answer is, absolutely!

But the path seems unclear. 

I want to guide you to transformation. 

Through my coaching program, WHETSTONE, I teach you the Forged Path to becoming a man who is sharpened in every area of his life - soul, heart, mind, strength and mission. 

You are too important to the Kingdom of God to stay on this path to implosion and burnout! 

If this sparks something in you, message me. 

I believe in this process to my core! To get you over the threshold, I want to offer you three 30 minute sharpening sessions free of charge. 

I’ve seen it happen time and again with men just like you! God is doing miracles! He is transforming lives! 

The breakthrough you are longing for is not as far off as you think. It only takes one small action to begin building momentum. 

Reach out and let’s schedule our first call.

aubrey@whetstoneway.com